© Moe Wood 2011
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My new site www.twinflames.com has launched!
This blog will remain in place for a while, but a new blog is being integrated with the new site. Eventually all posts (new and archived) will be available at the new site.
Quickly wanted to update you on what I have been doing behind the scenes.
I suspected when I began writing publicly that many would resonate with my work but I can't adequately express how much your kindness has meant to me. It's beautiful. I have access to statistics that show me how many readers swing by daily/weekly/monthly and I am so proud that you all share your time with me and the readership continues to grow from month to month!
I haven't been posting frequently and while it's partially because my twin is no longer in my physical life (less to comment on in real time), it's also because I have more pots in the fire than one woman should ever do!
Work on my book has slowed, but continues to be drafted in my mind and on post it notes left everywhere imaginable.
My research into the nature of soul connections and Twin Flames in particular has taken many new avenues. All the information is being documented to be shared in the future.
I am working with some amazing professionals who are helping me rebuild my Website which I hope to launch late-spring 2012. Through the new site you will have access to more videos and more materials on metaphysics/soul connections and Twin Flames.
Be prepared to have your mind blown away many more times.
I am writing ebooks that will be offered when the new site is launched. They will offer information that I know is needed and desired- without you having to wait until the book is ready.
I don't know exactly how everything ( book, videos, ebooks, articles, blog posts) will come together as I roll into 2012 but even if you don't see frequent posts you can rest assured I am working hard behind the scenes. I am absolutely exhausted by the volume of research and work I am doing on so many different aspects of soul-connection research, but this is my passion and I simply can't not do it.
Thank you for your patience and understanding during this period that may seem like cocooning- there is much I hope to share with you later this year & in the years to come.
Love to all,
Warmest thoughts everyone!
2012 will bring incredible opportunities and challenges to lightworkers.
Let's kick some lightworker & Twin Soul ass everybody. Let's do this. We can.
We can do anything we decide to do.
If we do it together we can do it quicker and more efficiently. Melt the veil of forgetfullness and fill the spaces where darkness would wish to reside.
Let the lightworker energy shine proud, firm, strong and radient!
Let's make strides as individuals and groups to be the light SO STRONG that earth people wake up in masses! 2012. This is our time, this is our shot. This is when we can turn the corner. Let's do this Earth & Earth people!
We are energy- we are love- we are soul- we are light. Let's never again forget!
All my love,
To answer a question From K.A.M. (paraphrased)
"If you are certain- truly certain- that you are a Twin... it is your duty, your obligation, your mission, your divine responsibility.... Twins would not have been selected for this difficult work if they and the universe/god weren't certain they could fulfill their agreement."
I am trying to understand the difference of what you state there versus when you wrote about “Nobody Is Exempt From the Standards You Establish, not even your Twin"
This is a fabulous question and I’m grateful to have the chance to address it!
I’m going to infuse a thought block “energetic understanding” into this post in hopes there will be no misunderstandings.
You can work with another, including your Twin Soul, at any point if they are trying to move forward or have asked for assistance. You can work with them energetically; through heart-communication, telepathic communication, through any kind of non-physical communication. It is ok to work with them if they have asked for your patience, your understanding, or for help. To be clear, they may literally ask you (with words) or they may come to you in meditation or even in a dream and ask for help. In all of these cases it’s fine and in fact, important, that you do what you can without compromising anything of yourself.
What is *not* ok are the following two things. Please be kind with yourself and remember the Twin Soul experience is a process. It’s doubtful any of us would be aware of this if we were in the early stages of the experience.
You must hold your ground on the physical level; that is you must reach the point of confidence and strength within yourself that you adhere to your OWN standards, not theirs, but YOURS. If you would not allow another person to treat you in a certain way, then you’ve got to understand by lowering your standards with your Twin-Soul you are not passing a critical soul-test.
I failed it myself so trust me, I’m speaking in hindsight here from the vantage point of someone who sees it now, and who saw it and was aware of it at the time it was happening, but for him I allowed it. That was my mistake. In my case, that means I allowed him in my life when nobody else, absolutely zero other individuals would have ever been allowed anywhere near me if they behaved in the same manner. I was mesmerized and enchanted by the connection and knowingly lowered my standards for him. I was aware of what I was doing at the time. I am sharing what I have learned so you have at least the information and perhaps can avoid that same error.
I realize now I had been given the most fascinating opportunity. I had been presented with the strongest kind of soul-bond and I focused on that; not on the opportunity it presented for ME. As hard as it is, and as an unimaginable as it may seem if you’re in the middle of it, your love and respect for yourself MUST come first. It MUST. You must be strong enough and confident enough in yourself that you’re willing to walk away from even your Twin-Soul if they mis-treat you in any way.
It is the ultimate test of your boundaries. How many lives did you live in order to be the strong and confident person you are? Many! It’s critical that you hold true to those boundaries and guidelines with your Twin-Soul. They are NOT exempt from your standards.
The standards you hold on the physical level are just those- they apply to physical relationships.
If your Twin has asked or has given you an indication they wish to grow, to learn, to explore the connection, to heal or to communicate with you, if they have asked for your assistance in any way; then it’s absolutely ok you do what you can for them as long as it doesn’t compromise the energy you need for yourself.
If your Twin-Flame has chosen another path, if they have walked away from you or if you’ve needed to walk away from them (with no likelihood of healthy human interaction for the foreseeable future) you must stop putting energy toward the connection and must retain it for yourself. I’m referring here to working with their soul. You can think of this however you like; there is a high-level soul lesson here; but even if you do it because you simply don’t have enough energy to share- you must not try to work with your Twin-Soul if they no longer wish you to. If they have demonstrated by one means or another that they do not wish to be in your life in any capacity- let them go.
Dreams and other soul-type communication will likely not stop; but in time you’ll find a way to think of them as interesting; be aware of them, note them in a journal; but you won’t focus on them. Do not put much energy toward the continued soul-link experiences. They are showing you the link remains and it’s just that simple; I assure you that putting energy or clinging to these things will hold you back from where you’re meant to go.
Do not prevent yourself from growing because you insist on hanging onto the soul-aspects of a Twin-Soul connection. Faith and trust that what is meant to be will be, is different from putting energy to where it does not benefit you and therefore you are literally harming yourself.
When there is physical interaction: Make your standards known and hold to them.
In these times, energy work, soul communication, meditations for healing, anything like that is great and it does help. You will see signs as they manifest outwardly in your Twin. No matter how tempting, do NOT lower your standards in terms of the physical interaction.
If despite their efforts your Twin can’t explore the connection and has made that clear, it is NOT your duty to work with them on the soul-level. Doing so is harmful to you and to the connection.
Even in this phase, you’ll still get messages; but what you must do is avoid focusing on them and take all the energy you’d been putting into the ‘connection’ and give it to YOU.
This is *so* much easier said than done, I know. I assure you that when you reach this level of understanding, there is so much freedom!
The bottom line is pretty simple(1) If you are in the physical stages and are being treated well, both of you should do whatever you can to assist the other. (2) If you are in the physical stages and one or both are behaving poorly; keep your boundaries in place and work on the soul-level. (3) If you are separated you must not spend energy toward your Twin or to the connection; while studying and learning about these connections is fine; it’s imperative that you direct all available resources on yourself fully. If you do so, your insights and understanding of the purpose of this connection in your life will come quickly. Nobody can get you to that stage- you must experience it directly. Do not postpone this revelation by giving up any of your own soul’s resources; use your energy and your wisdom on you!
If I said it’s not your responsibility to protect, heal, fix or save anyone, you’d agree, right? We learn this if we’re even partially paying attention to the laws of the universe & human nature.
Most of us already know that the only person we can change is ourselves. If other people ask us for support, to teach them, to help them, that’s a different story, but we can never do these things when it’s not asked of us.
The same rule applies to Twin Flame connections- Twin Souls do not get a dispensation.
Your twin soul is like any other soul in the sense that you must KNOW (not think/feel/assume) but KNOW you cannot fix/heal/save them. Even at their request, you can offer wisdom, counsel, and advice, but you can’t do the work for them. Do you KNOW this?
Twin Flames offer us many chances for self-assessment. Those of us who have come close to mastering certain universal lessons and feel we have received an “A”… now we move on to graduate school of those same lessons. Can you honor yourself and the lessons you know to be true; even when tested by your Twin Soul?
Do not flinch or falter in the standards you set for how you will be treated.
Do not compromise in your expectations of others; even the strongest of connections…
From that place all things become possible.